Are You Deprived?
Stop living as if you are deprived. No really. Stop it right now.
I’ve noticed that many of us have the attitude that life has been holding-back, depriving us of good things. (You know the yo-yo diet kind of living that happens trying to lose weight, so you cut out anything with flavor from your cupboards and live on a stiff regimen of of things that taste like cardboard.Then that logic follows suite into other aspects of your life and relationships that the best quality is too hard to come by, too expensive, you would have to work too hard etc. so you settle for the superficial version with no depth because it’s easier? Yeah, been there.)
When I was diagnosed with polycystic ovarian syndrome (PCOS) a few years ago and trying desperately to avoid all gluten, dairy and sugar to improve the symptoms, instead of feeling better I suddenly felt even more deprived. It wasn’t that my body actually was deprived, I just got stuck in the logic that anything healthy, gluten-free, raw etc. that would benefit my body would be flavorless and insignificant. I felt like PCOS had handed me a life-sentence of a depleted, passionless life.
That’s when it hit me…the loaded question…if food was now flavorless, what other parts of my life had become flavorless because I thought sacrificing pleasure meant I was creating health?
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