Work-Life Balance
I’ve been thinking a lot about work-life balance lately. The typical American lifestyle is that you fit life around your job. You rush to get your morning coffee, maybe grab a quick breakfast on the go, race to work, barely wake up enough to be on the top of your game and you drift through the morning til lunch, grab something quick and eat at your desk while you continue working. By mid-afternoon you hit a slump and take a break for a Caramel Macchiato to get through to the end of the day. When 5pm finally hits, you race out of the office, go the gym for a power session on the elliptical and rush home to make dinner for the family. You eat quickly, if even together, before everyone parts ways to finish a few tasks before falling onto the couch exhausted in front of the TV, only to do it all again tomorrow.
But what if you could structure your work around your life?
Really think about it, what are the things you value most, the things and activities that help you to be the most efficient, joyful, healthy version of yourself – (those are usually the things we cut first when we are too busy)?
I’ve noticed this in the life I have now; I give little time for the things I say I love, and I go about my days in a constant state of “rush.” Life is not meant to be lived that way. I want to be someone who walks my talk, so I’m starting with this question:
What are the truly most important things I want in my life? (Your current schedule might not reflect them now, but think about your ideal.)
For me, it’s time for art, writing on my blog, long walks in the woods with friends, yoga and taking time to actually make a nutritious meal on a regular basis. But of course, in my hurry to do the traditional model of American Life ( i.e: work hard to acquire material things, have a job with benefits, a 401(k) and feel secure…), I’ve cut out the things I want to have in my life because I’m too “busy.”
We tend to think of the things that enrich our lives most as little luxuries that we can’t always afford the time or energy for if we are following the standard American life. Well, I’m tired of it. I propose that as a tribe, we start a revolution of people committed to putting our health, well-being and balance first and scheduling our lives in such a way that we have time to go to yoga, to take a long walk, and to create beautiful whole meals everyday.
The concept of life-design is not new, but it takes planning and creating goals, and schedules to ensure that we are balanced in hos we use our time so that we can get those value self-care items into our daily practice.
What do you say, will you revolutionize your life with me? I’m starting now by preparing a beautiful pot of soup, lingering in my kitchen with good music playing in the background. That to-do list of extra work I brought home can wait. This moment is mine.
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